Success Diaries: How To Take Control Of Your Life

Success Diaries: How To Take Control Of Your Life

How can you take control of your life? I’m sure that’s a question many of us have asked at least once in our lifetime.

I’ve been thinking about how losing someone brings things into perspective.

All the cliches about being authentic, live is too short, do what you love become a reality when you are hit by the realisation of how fragile human life truly is.

Today’s blog is a special one for me.

I don’t want it to be sad, I want it to be a push towards the right direction if you are feeling stuck or frustrated with the way your life is going.

I promise you, in no time you will take back control of your life, focus and energy.


Learn How To Take Control Of Your Life


Take Control Of Your life, Own Your Truth and Become The Master Of Your Existence

Guys, no more wishing and no more waiting.

In life, you need to learn how to play with the cards you are dealt with. Here is how:

1. You are allowed to try many things before deciding what you want to do

Change your mind, choose one path and change it again if needed.

Keep trying, keep searching till you find whatever you are looking for. It can be your career, health routine, perfect partner anything.

Understand you are not required to have everything figured it out. Honestly is there even such a thing?

Give yourself permission to explore and reinvent yourself. Click To Tweet

2.  Put Your Blinkers On

This can be hard. We love many people in our lives and we tend to want to please them.

However, sometimes you need to learn to ignore stuff and make peace with the fact that you need to agree to disagree with your loved ones or even randoms.

Your life is your path. No one is going to walk it for you.

At the end of the day, you are the one who needs to be at peace with each one of your choices and decisions.

Trust your gut and go with it. You may even turn a few cynics into believers, I know I have. 😉

Ailyn Martinez

3. Take Action

Take risks, change your mind, dare to wear “that” outfit, start that course, pick a new hobby, change your hair, your job or even your country.

What floats your boat? Only you know. Just answer that question and take action.

What are you waiting for? Someone’s approval or permission? You may end up waiting a while.

If the problem is resources. Make a plan and work hard to turn your wishes into reality.

4.  Make Yourself a Promise

Whatever it is that’s making you feel your life is out of your control.

Make yourself a promise: That no matter what you will figure out a way to live a life you are truly happy and proud of.

No more keeping up with the Joneses or people pleasing habits. Do “you” for a while and see what happens.

And just like my beautiful friend used to say “That’s how you win your battles/ Tus batallas se ganan asi”

That’s all for today guys. I hope you enjoyed it and it made you reconsider things in your life.

***Note: Today’s post is dedicated in loving memory of an angel, a phoenix, my fellow scorpio queen and beautiful shiny star. My lovely friend Cielo Morena. RIP, I will always love you and thank you! you will always inspire me…

As you probably already noticed, we have some new colours. I felt this colour scheme is a better representation of our brand, aesthetics and direction. ♥️

Let me know what you think about new look? Do you like it?

Love, Ailyn

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Ailyn Martinez
Creator of, an online source aimed to help readers design and create powerful brands, profitable businesses and fulfilling lives. Ailyn specialises in personal development, branding, marketing and content creation. Ailyn is also an avid reader, shoe hoarder and handbag lover who is obsessed with making things beautiful. During her time off you can find her looking for images of llamas, alpacas, knitwear and home decor on Pinterest, watching YouTube tutorials or playing with her cat named Teddy.